Comments on: Britney Spears – 3 – Are Threesomes “In”?

By: ayoumans25

ayoumans25 — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:42 +0000

Very informative as usual & you both look great! ;D

By: JPEGUE611

JPEGUE611 — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:42 +0000

didnt realize the song was about threesomes i thought it was just like a relationship with 3 people lol. i guess im just a little naive. but yeah you guys are just amazing get me through alot of things and answer ton of my questions much love
Francisco

By: jesushatesme666

jesushatesme666 — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:42 +0000

threesome?

Yes please

By: DanAndJenn

DanAndJenn — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:42 +0000

indeed we were referring to the more common scenario (and very common male fantasy) of 2 women – in this particular video.

LOL you can only cover so much in one segment. to answer your question the MMF (two men, one woman) situation is not all that different, most of the same topics and concepts apply.

and as you might expect, guys are more likely to be more apprehensive on that one, just as women are more apprehensive about another woman joining them.

By: dncfriends

dncfriends — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:42 +0000

Notice in the video that one of the hosts refers to the 3rd person as gender neutral and the other host refers to the 3rd person as a female. Is there a bias when it comes to this? There seems to be an assumption in the media that it’s 2 girls and 1 guy, but how often is this true? Or does it happen both ways at similar frequencies? vonfox83 seems to make the same assumption that she’d have to share her guy. But what if it was her having 2 guys. Would she feel the same?

By: DanAndJenn

DanAndJenn — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:42 +0000

@vonfox83 you are absolutely right – most women are not comfortable with it, but many are… We truly believe that we should all have these conversations with those we love and do what works for OUR own relationships. And that’s what you’re doing – thank you so much for you honest comments!

By: bballkann

bballkann — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:41 +0000

threesomes are actually always in. i mean, 4 me:D but its even more fun foursome and more.. new experiences, like Britney’s singing: what we do is innoccent, just 4 fun and nofthin meant

btw, love the song!

By: IAmBlackDragonX

IAmBlackDragonX — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:41 +0000

me and my g/f have talked about it but even today, we’re still not sure about it. i did say that IF we did have a 3some, it’d be boy/girl/girl. i’m a little homophobic but she does say she a famtasy about having boy/girl/boy.

By: jdfox1

jdfox1 — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:41 +0000

Were they ever “out”? Nice video!

By: nblfyb

nblfyb — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:41 +0000

Gotta listen to that song hahah I’ve kinda done a low-level threesome. lol

Benson and Tonic

By: luluslovebear

luluslovebear — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:41 +0000

I feel a 3some would be just like cheating on your partner, even if the partner that is betraying the relationship.

By: heartsophocles

heartsophocles — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:41 +0000

I’m comfortable with the concept, but I don’t think I’d honestly do it just because sex makes me nervous as it is with just my partner in the room. I would be a nervous wreck if we added some other foreign person!

By: Anglicme007

Anglicme007 — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:41 +0000

I’m a bi girl and a threesome sounds like alot of fun

By: karahershey

karahershey — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:41 +0000

tollay try a treesome im bi best of both worlds

By: MysteriousDrella

MysteriousDrella — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:41 +0000

hm, threesomes, kissing maybe yes…. but i don’t think i’d be doing it when it comes to sex… feelings always get involved, in my opinion, even if u agreed not to get feelings… usually threesomes turn out bad due to jealousy. I’m biased maybe, i know a couple who swapped partners just as an experiment( fr sex, to spice up things), and one couple formed by that, is now a couple and married.

By: XXTheRealMcCoyXX

XXTheRealMcCoyXX — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:41 +0000

Some girls seem to think that sex has more value than the time u spend with them and the things u have in common, so they become so insecure and so jealous of the other gils around you. Ive had girl stalk me from coast to coast just to make sure I wasnt talking to another girl! checking my phone and demanding to know who this other girl is in my contacts! if you keep old photos of a past GF your cheating on her.etc Its more crap than I can be bothered to deal with.

(Rant Finished)

By: XXTheRealMcCoyXX

XXTheRealMcCoyXX — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:41 +0000

I prefer the Intimacy without the intricacy. We all know how feeling can change around certain circumstances right? I like to keep things casual; Ive never referred to sex as love making Love makes sex, sex doesnt make love but people seem to inextricably link love and Intimacy as if they where the exact same thing. And that were magically somehow supposed to not get horny for other people when were in love with 1 girl or guy? = S

By: XXTheRealMcCoyXX

XXTheRealMcCoyXX — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:41 +0000

The way I see it, if youre secure and confident in your relationships You dont get jealous And when your partner realises this you become more attractive to her you have just demonstrated one of the characteristics of an
alpha male understanding what sex really is and not being needy or over possessive about her Cause thats what kills most relationships in the end, why can’t girls be the same way?

By: XXTheRealMcCoyXX

XXTheRealMcCoyXX — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:41 +0000

lol yeah, I’m Bi (mostly inclined towards girls though) and my two best friends are gay and lesbian, I guess we just look at sex as more of a therapeutic process of building intimacy rather than a demonstration of the sentimental value we share for each other, There are lots of ways to express love for someone besides sex ,I think… Like talking perhaps?

By: stopoutside

stopoutside — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:41 +0000

Sleeping with multiple people is problematic and ADDS to the exposure of possible disease, as you know. I agree, unfortunately children ARE having sex before a real commitment. There are not many people who can have someone they care about “sleep around”, and think that it’s GREAT, OK, etc. So to present this idea as such, is obviously beyond general sanity. U 2 are married and KNOW that mental stumbling blocks go UP in a marriage, when devastating words or actions occur.

By: PrincessKLS

PrincessKLS — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:41 +0000

I don’t know if I’d ever want to try a threesome or other types of group sex because I’m a very monogamous person. But if I ever did, I would prefer to be between two guys then a guy and a girl or if I did do anything with a girl I would prefer to have a threesome with two other girls, or have a bigger orgy with guys and girls.

But the likelyhood of me doing this, is very low.

By: TheWiccanchild

TheWiccanchild — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 04:41:41 +0000

I would try a threesome with my closest friends. I dont see why not.